My favourite Marriage quote :
Do not marry a person that u can live with ; only marry someone that you cannot live without ❤
Hi cuties, I am Martina Lazaro from Chennai. I am 32 years old and married for 12 years. I have a daughter who is 3 years old. She’s my miracle 💞
My love story ❤How we met ? My hubby is from Mumbai and I am from Chennai. I was 16 and he was 28. 12 years difference 😁 He’s my brother-in-laws cousin , so when he came to chennai to visit his cousins we met and we instantly locked eyes. I was blushing my face off. He took my phone number and we kept in contact for one and half years but long distance relationship was hard though and for sum crazy reason we broke up. It was hard though, because he was so far away to make things work. So I moved on.. After 1 and half years he came to Chennai asking my sister where is Martina (Tina). Is she married ,my sister said she’s not yet. So he asked my sister for my number which she gave .Hehehehehe That day he called me in the evening and I was on my way home. He was like HEY TINA THIS IS WARREN HERE 😍😍😍I knew I am gonna fall head over heels back again 😍😍😍 The next day while talking, he asked me whether I forgot him ? I just looked at him stunningly. He told me I’ve still not broken up with u .I am still in love with u. That day I knew he’s gonna be my husband and we decided let’s not mess this up again as we are meant to be together… By next year we got married in October 2004.
Life after marriage
A lot of ups and downs. One thing I learnt is when a problem comes tapping at your front door don’t run to the back door stand by your man and face the problem. To be honest marriage is a commitment, a big responsibility. Marriage is not only your wedding day it’s life after your wedding day. In my marriage we believe in 50-50. We make decisions together. The more I live with him the more I love him .. Marriage should not be based on money , sex , food ,home. If you have LOVE then your marriage will work (that’s just my opinion)..
Marriage is like a box, most people get married believing a myth that marriage is a beautiful box ,full of beautiful things companionship,intimacy,friendship etc the truth is that marriage at the start is an empty box .you must put something in before you take anything out. There is no love in marriage ,LOVE is in the people and the people put love in the marriage. I hope Iam making sense..
In my marriage we follow 3 simple steps
Never go to sleep with an argument unsettled.
Tell your partner I love you every day trust me guys it plays a major role.
Trust and honesty.
There is more to know and learn and I am still learning God bless and thank u ❤🙏🏼